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Money matters: Distressed Securities

Graham Macdonald
MBMG International Ltd.

Background

1. What exactly is distressed securities investing?
2. What are the key risk factors and qualities required for investment success?
3. What investment performances can we anticipate?

Distressed
Securities

A distressed securities fund invests in the senior debt or equity of companies which are experiencing operating difficulties and/or liquidity crises. These securities typically trade at significant discounts to par value. A typical story unfolds as follows:

1. A small, fast-growing company obtains bank loans, secured by receivables and inventory, to finance further expansion.

2. Subsequently the company obtains additional financing to acquire other companies in related fields.

3. Business conditions later contract, interest rates rise, competition increases, and the now highly-leveraged company starts to lose money.

4. As losses mount, the company cannot even pay the loan interest.

At this point, banks are faced with holding non-performing loans and sitting-out bankruptcy proceedings, or selling the now ‘distressed’ loans at a significant discount. They will usually decide to take this second option, not wanting additional risks or the headaches of unfamiliar terrain.

Now a distressed securities fund will enter the picture. Before investing, fund management will undertake a study to determine the risks and rewards. They will:

1. Analyse the fundamentals of the business.
2. Determine its operational strengths and weaknesses and potential for improvement.
3. Place valuations on the different company securities, debt and collateral and establish a likely timeframe for their realisation following and operational restructuring.

Should risk/reward parameters meet management’s objectives, the fund will purchase the senior bank debt at a large discount. Some funds then adopt a passive stance, waiting for events to unfold. Others take an active approach, participating in creditor committees and even directing future re-organisation. Finally, following successful restructuring, profits are realised.

A company’s fall into restructuring often makes the headlines, with the US government bail out of Chrysler in the 80’s unforgettable for many. A more modest example would be the US motor parts company which was in bankruptcy protection due to a combination of excessive debt and unproductive plants. Following detailed analysis, the distressed securities fund developed a recovery plan, purchased the senior debt at sixty cents on the dollar, brought in turnaround artists and hired new skilled management. The debt was converted to new equity, and the eventually productive and financially unburdened company was sold to a larger competitor netting the fund a significant profit.

Risk Factors

There are three broad risk scenarios:
1. Operating parameters and estimated realisable asset values can deteriorate.
2. Restructuring, both financial and operational, can take longer than anticipated.
3. Economic crises can temporarily reduce the values of distressed securities as investors seek ‘safer’ investments.

Success Factors

Clearly distressed securities investing demands a very high level of quality, in-house research and investment experience. Additionally, most management teams utilise outside industry and legal experts to complement their research and restructuring efforts. The best also incorporate strong risk-management controls with procedures that include:

Ï% Acquisition of senior debt of basically sound companies in financial or operational distress.

Ï% Avoidance of leverage.

Ï% Focus on readily fixable operational problems as opposed to more subjective revenue enhancements.

Ï% Maintenance of cash reserves when conditions turn negative.

Ï% Diversification of investments by company, industry and region.

Future Returns

Distressed securities investing is classified as an “event-driven” investment strategy, with returns being driven firstly by the identification of opportunity, and then successful completion of often complex restructurings. While economic crises temporarily hurt asset values, returns over full business cycles typically exceed those of equities and are accompanied by both low volatility and low market correlation.

The above data and research was compiled from sources believed to be reliable. However, neither MBMG International Ltd nor its officers can accept any liability for any errors or omissions in the above article nor bear any responsibility for any losses achieved as a result of any actions taken or not taken as a consequence of reading the above article. For more information please contact Graham Macdonald on [email protected]


Snap Shots: Can history repeat itself?

by Harry Flashman

Well, if it is in this column, history certainly can repeat itself. I was perusing some back issues and came across one of the first photography articles I wrote, which was entitled Frogs win world’s first! This was not a reference to football (soccer) at which the French have done reasonably well, but was an historical overview of the birth of photography and its progress, in which the French also did reasonably well! With the very rapid advances in photography and the recent technology, I felt it was worthwhile us all stopping to see just where photography has come from in the last 179 years.

Did you know that the French were the first to bring photography to the world? And no, it wasn’t somebody called Francois Kodak either (but more about that later)!

The first known “photographic” image was recorded in 1826 by a French gentleman called Nicephore Niepce. He managed to capture the view from his window, producing the image on a bitumen covered pewter plate. The exposure time for this epic making picture (or should that be “epoch” making?) was a record breaking eight hours! What took poor old Nicephore eight hours to produce, you can do in 1/125th of a second.

Monsieur Nicephore then teamed up with another Frenchman, Louis Jacques Mande Daguerre (1759-1851) and the pair of them worked on trying to make “photography” a little bit easier. Nicephore expired in 1833, turning up at the pearly gates with his pewter plates under his arm, but Daguerre continued in his quest of the Holy Grail, or to photograph it, if nothing else, even though he was by then 73 years old.

By 1839 when he was 80 years old, he had managed to produce images on highly polished silvered copper plates and released the details in August of that year, but only after obtaining a lifetime pension for himself from the French Government. Daguerre was no dunce! Neither was the French government, as it knew the “lifetime” would not last too long!

Now while these images were much better than Nicephore’s originals, they still took forever in the camera. Exposure times were far too long to make portraiture a reality. “Just hold zat pose for six hours, Madame!”

However, while the French were exposing themselves and their plates to the sun, an Englishman by the name of William Henry Fox Talbot (1800-1877) was experimenting exposing silver impregnated paper and produced the first “negative”. By then exposing his sensitized paper to the negative he had made previously, he managed to produce positive copies. Now, more than one image could be made from the one photographic session. Think about it, this was ground-breaking stuff.

However, Fox Talbot did nothing about his new process until he heard from France about Louis Daguerre’s “invention”. In the same year (1839) he then rushed into print with details of his process. This was the start of modern photography.

Exposure times were still an hour or so, but in 1840 the simple photographic lens was improved by Josef Petzval allowing 16 times more light into the camera and exposure times dropped to around 4 to 5 minutes. Portraiture had arrived! The impact of Petzval on photography is often forgotten, but his improvement to the optical lens had actually much more of an effect than the slow improvements in the sensitivity of the film plates of the day.

For the next four decades photographers spent their time refining the “negative” process, however it took an American to bring photography within the reach of the masses. His name was George Eastman (1854 - 1932) and he was an inventor and an industrialist.

In 1888 he introduced the small box camera with a 100 exposure roll film inside, but he was unsure of what to call it. The marketing gurus told Eastman that a good catchy name should have K’s in it. And so “Kodak” was born.

From there it was really refinement of the silver halide processes, until the digital era came upon us, in which we stand right now. The next round of advances will certainly not take 179 years, I can assure you.


Modern Medicine: Anti-cancer drug evaluations - have we cracked it this time?

by Dr. Iain Corness, Consultant

“Wonder drugs” are always in the news, and anti-cancer ones particularly so. Most producers of these wonder compounds crave publicity, for some quite different reasons. Quite frankly, there are those who are out for commercial gain, and any articles will help them sell their products, whether it works or not. Others include “leaks” to the media done by bona fide researchers who need financial backing to continue their research, and some publicity helps in getting some dollars from benevolent organizations. However, sometimes there can be some real gold amongst the dross. 17AAG looks like it could be one of them.

This drug looks as if it actually does have the potential to produce regression of some forms of cancers, and is currently going through preliminary testing. Noted and authoritative researchers are quite optimistic following a trial funded by Cancer Research UK and conducted by Institute of Cancer Research scientists based at the Royal Marsden Hospital, London.

Professor John Toy, Cancer Research UK’s medical director said, “These results are very early and, although encouraging, much more work to assess the drug’s effect in large numbers of patients still needs to be done.”

Professor Peter Rigby, chief executive at the Institute of Cancer Research said, “This early trial indicates the potential of this drug for future cancer treatment. Although further trials need to be conducted, early indications suggest that the multi-pronged attack by this drug shows promise in treating a range of cancers.”

Patients taking part in the UK trial had cancers which included skin, breast, colon, ovarian, kidney, lung, and pancreas. This initial study was designed to see if the 17AAG drug worked at the biochemical level, where the drug targets a so-called ‘chaperone’ molecule called heat shock protein (Hsp) 90. By deactivating Hsp90, the drug simultaneously sabotages numerous other molecules critical to cancer growth. As a result, cancer cells stop growing and die.

Study leader Professor Paul Workman, from the Cancer Research UK Centre for Cancer Therapeutics in London said, “The results of this research suggest that, by blocking the action of Hsp90, the drug has the potential to attack cancer by shutting down a range of systems that cancer cells use to grow and spread.”

While the Institute of Cancer Research scientists found the drug 17AAG blocked breast, bowel, skin and prostate cancer in 30 patients as well as in the laboratory, and the Journal of Clinical Oncology study confirms 17AAG works, more trials are needed before the prototype becomes a real treatment option, experts say.

Now, before you put your hand up and say, “Pick me!” it is not so easy in these very early stages of this research. For example, one trial that has been running is looking at the use of 17AAG in a renal cancer situation. The list of exclusions is almost as long as the list of factors that must be exhibited by the patients before acceptance into the trial. For example, pregnant women are excluded from this study because 17AAG has the potential for teratogenic or abortifacient effects, and no data regarding its safety in pregnant women is available. Because there is an unknown but potential risk for adverse events in infants secondary to treatment of the nursing mother with 17AAG, this would also be an exclusion. And of course, any woman on the trial must not get pregnant either. HIV-positive patients are also excluded from the study because of unknown but potential pharmacokinetic interactions of anti-retroviral drugs with 17 AAG.

So while 17AAG looks promising, it’s really a long way off yet. Even if it works, what is the result of long term use of the “cure”? They don’t know and neither do we.


Learn to Live to Learn: Perceptions

with Andrew Watson

Over the last few weeks, I have enjoyed a number of stimulating conversations on the subject of perceptions. Where do they come from and how are they formed? Are we aware of the conscious and subliminal influences, pressures and preconceptions, which undoubtedly exist, as we prepare ourselves to form an opinion? What are the differences between fact and opinion? How can malicious intent propagate malevolent and unfounded views?

Recently, I was particularly interested to debate the concept of the presumption of arrogance, which is an area that excites a vast range of different reactions, depending variously on education, socio-economic, political and cultural background. It is a complex phenomenon. Of course, it can be a terrible thing to presume arrogance in either an individual or a group of individuals, when often the very implications and ramifications of such accusation are wilfully ignored. Deviant critics might point to this last sentence as an example of arrogance, instead perhaps, of considering the matter more deeply.

Just as Fascism can be seen as close to Communism, Love adjacent to Hatred, it appears to me that Arrogance is close to Humility and consequently, can often be mistaken for it. I propose that these are not linear concepts, but can perhaps be more easily understood when considered as existing at the apex of a circle. So, for example, arrogance might be at 1 degree and humility at 359 degrees. So whilst they are in fact, as far apart as it is possible to be, they can appear close together.

The mistaken perception is that closeness represents similarity in essence. A glance at perceptions of silent response to provocation provides a useful example of how perceptions can be formed positively or negatively. The Thai response to a farang shouting is a good example. The Thai is embarrassed for the farang, yet how often have you witnessed their silence or smile taken as an arrogant disregard, fuelling farang ire?

Presumption of attitudes within responses can have a great deal to do with expectation and conditioning and can be seen across the world exploding into conflict. In light of the recent events in London, it is perhaps salient to think of how perceptions can become a fast track to atrocity, especially when fuelled by bigotry and desperation. Equally, I suggest that responsibility for preventing and in the end, eradicating the possibility of such attacks (if only that were true) rests with us all in our everyday lives. That is what I meant when I wrote last week that the answer lies in education. It is also the reason that I align myself with Khalil Gibran philosophically and artistically.

Perceptions often exist and can be formed in a world of ignorance, envy, greed, hatred and uninformed gossip forming a spiral of decline, which reflects no credit on the conspirators. In the Second World War, the British ran a famous PR campaign maintaining, “Careless talk costs lives”. I still believe this to be the case. How carelessly the culture of immediate gratification dispenses with people’s feelings, as the truth is left far behind, drowned in the desire for social acceptance. How cheaply we deride with cynicism, destroy characters without reason.

More cynically, perhaps I am describing pub culture (an oxymoron?), when space between beers needs to be filled with some kind of conversation. Culturally, this appears to be a phenomenon of the United Kingdom and her commonwealth brethren of similar cultural background, where popular heroic figures like Beckham can be undone by malicious falsehood, rumour and innuendo, splashed infamously across the front and back pages of the tabloid press. Ask a French person what they think of this habitual denigration and they are incredulous, asking, “Why do they bother?”

It seems difficult to explain the apparent reluctance of the British to celebrate the individual achievements of others or to recognize excellence in their peer group. Personally, it wasn’t until I went to college in the United States that I experienced the dizzying and wonderfully enriching sensation of people coming up and telling me, “Hey, great job!” Wow! That felt great! And you know what? It’s contagious and you never lose the habit.

On the dark side, it can have a severe impact on self-esteem, confidence, motivation and happiness, to not be affirmed, celebrated and recognized. Inside, we are all fragile beings. The secret the Americans have is reflected in Christian teaching – “It is in giving that we receive.” Look at cheerleading. They’ve made a sport out of encouraging others. Did you know you can win cheerleading scholarships for college? I’m not advocating cheerleading as an Olympic sport, but I hope you see what I mean.

Any teacher who has ever been in a staff room beset by balkanised negativity will testify to its demoralising, draining effect. Anyone who has cynically propagated lies and seen them spawn more of the same will recognise the power that can be wielded by attempting to falsely mould people’s perceptions. Education provides a means by which people can arrive at an understanding of their role as individuals and their responsibilities to others. The truth (without wanting to engage in a debate on “cultural relativism”) has a beauty and clarity of its own and I think we should celebrate and revere it. Its distortion is dangerous and the source of iniquity and misery. Accentuate the positive!

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Next week: Postcard from London


Heart to Heart with Hillary

Dear Hillary,
I have received a stack of papers from my wife in Korat via her lawyer asking for a divorce. I am not thrilled at the idea so I haven’t replied. We were married in the USA so do I have to divorce her there or can it be done in Thailand? Any idea how much it costs in Thailand?
Thanks, Jerry

Dear Jerry,
This really is a case for the lovelorn, isn’t it. I’m sorry to hear that your wife wants a divorce, but since I do not know what has prompted this, I can really do no more than send commiserations. As far as divorces go, no you do not have to go back to the US, it can be done here, as my recently divorced Scottish friend has just told me (he can be recognized by the big grin and two girls on each arm). Like all divorces, they are costly, but not overly so compared to America. Since she is making the running, you can proceed at your own pace, but I would always suggest that you establish dialogue as to why it has come to this situation. It is not the legal costs in severing the knot, it is the cost in property to be handed over, as well as the psychological cost involved in any split-up.
Dear Hillary,
You have probably heard this hundreds of times and may be able to help me in this problem I have. On my last trip to Thailand (my third this year) I fell in love with a most beautiful girl from a bar and against all the advice given by “old hands” I gave her money to set her up in a house for us both, which had to be in her name as it could not be done in mine, which I found out beforehand. We got along so well, I could not believe my luck. She went to a language school so that we could talk together (I am hopeless with languages, always have been). I had to do everything quickly as I was only here for three weeks. She contacted me every day by email and told me that she was setting up the house just for us, and I was just so happy. My work told me the good news that they wanted me to go to Singapore for a quick trip, so I thought I would I would quickly fly up to Thailand and surprise her. The surprise was all mine when I found out that she was living there with some German guy and had been for some time! Should I ask her to return the money? I feel totally cheated and I think it will be some time before I fall in love again, especially with a Thai girl.
Cheated

Dear Cheated,
Just who has cheated who in this sit-com drama? You admit that all the old hands warned you, but you went ahead anyway and all their predictions came true, although I don’t know that you can attach much blame to the German guy - he’s probably paid for the house as well. Petal, would you have done this in your own country? Within three weeks of knowing some girl from the local pub, would you be dragged down to the estate agents where you buy a house, and sign it over to her, while you then disappear, happy in the knowledge that she is “waiting” for you? You should be thankful that you didn’t buy her two houses, a motorbike for her brother and a couple of buffalo for her father. You can ask her to return the money, but I wouldn’t hold out much hope of ever seeing it. This has been an expensive lesson in love, but it is time that you grew up, I’m afraid.
Dear Hillary,
My Thai girlfriend tells me that she wants to get her breasts made bigger, which sounds just fine to me. She is Thai and so she doesn’t have much on top compared to the girls I am used to in England. The only problem is that she wants me to pay for them. Since it is round about 80,000 baht I would like to think I am going to get my money’s worth. For example, there’s no guarantee she’s going to stick around for ever, is there? Do you think I should go ahead with this, Hillary, or back out now?
Booby Bob

Dear Booby Bob,
You are wondering if you are going to get your 80,000 baht of value from the operation, if I read your letter correctly. It all depends upon what you call “value” my Petal. Really, you have not given me enough information to make such a value judgment, I’m afraid.

However, why don’t you just spend the 80,000 baht on yourself and get the silicone jobby done on yourself instead. This way you will be able to keep yourself happy for hours, in fact be totally self contained, so to speak, and you don’t have to worry about your super-endowed darling taking off with her expensive wobblers wrapped tightly in her 34 C bra. I’d think twice before agreeing to anything.


Psychological Perspectives:  Psychological theory applied in filmmaking and community awareness campaigns

by Michael Catalanello, Ph.D.

Thabo, Thabiso and Moalosi are three energetic and engaging young men, who travel to communities throughout the countryside of Lesotho, a mountainous enclave of South Africa. They carry with them a mobile cinema unit. In these remote communities where a third of the population is HIV+, they screen an HIV awareness film featuring themselves as the main characters. They discuss openly with their audiences their own struggles with HIV and public acceptance.

Young women they meet along the way find the men irresistible. They are, after all, movie stars!

The three friends are featured in the documentary, “Ask Me I’m Positive.” The premise of the film is that a person who is infected by the AIDS virus need not live a life of secrecy. There is no shame in being HIV+.

Last year people from around the world gathered in Bangkok to view “Ask Me I’m Positive,” along with over 50 other films offered during the 2004 AIDS Film Festival, organized by the XV International AIDS Conference. Many of these films featured real or fictional characters depicted as dealing courageously and effectively with problems brought about by HIV and AIDS.

The power of such films to educate and change people’s attitudes and behavior is based upon a psychological theory advanced during the 1960s by a remarkable psychologist named Albert Bandura. His revolutionary idea, known as “social cognitive theory,” has found applications, not only in the more traditional clinical settings, but also in campaigns to increase literacy, reduce the stigma of HIV/AIDS, reduce unwanted pregnancies, promote environmental responsibility, and empower women in male-dominated societies.

At first glance, Bandura’s insight may seem obvious: People can learn through observing the experiences of others. However, this notion was in stark contrast to the ideas that were in vogue in psychology when it first appeared, those promoted by strict behaviorism.

The behaviorists, led by the prolific experimentalist B.F. Skinner, taught that all learning is based upon the individual’s direct experience of the consequences of his or her own behavior. According to this view, when one’s behavior is followed by consequences he considers favorable, he tends to repeat it. Conversely, when rewards are not forthcoming, or if desired conditions are removed as a consequence of an act, that act tends to occur progressively less frequently.

The behaviorists could not bring themselves to acknowledge the importance of learning by observing the experiences of others. That’s because learning by observation suggests that mental processes were somehow involved in the learning process. The behaviorists were committed to the doctrine that only observable events like behavior could form the basis of a scientific psychology. The admission of unobservable mental or “cognitive” elements into psychology seemed to many a step backwards from the establishment of a truly objective behavioral science.

Bandura’s earliest experiments on observational learning demonstrated how children, allowed to view videotapes of others behaving aggressively and without restraint, subsequently showed more aggressive behavior. By contrast, children exposed to videotapes lacking in displays of aggression, exhibited no such increase in aggression.

It stands to reason that if children can be influenced to behave badly by observing others, so could they be influenced favorably by observing attractive role models behaving in such a way. And not just children, but adults, too, would seem subject to the principles of observational learning. The research has supported this conclusion, and forms the basis for a new genre of filmmaking exemplified by “Ask Me I’m Positive.”

The characters presented in these films are ordinary people, folks with whom the audience can easily identify. Story lines are typically compelling. The challenges faced are those encountered by ordinary people. Positive role models exhibit behavior that has favorable consequences. Negative role models suffer unpleasant consequences for their mistakes. Lessons are learned, not through wordy speeches and sermons, but through credible actions and consequences - the experiences of the characters.

Studies have shown that attitudes in communities where films like “Ask Me I’m Positive” are shown do change in the desired direction. Misinformation concerning HIV/AIDS in parts of Tanzania, for example, began to evaporate following the airing of a 1993 radio drama called, “Twende na Wakati,” or “Let’s Go with the Times,” aimed at increasing AIDS awareness. Researchers believe the popular radio drama was instrumental in producing the changes.

It is gratifying to see research in psychology put to such practical use. Successes like these can point the way to new and innovative applications of psychological ideas like Bandura’s social cognitive theory, aimed at improving public awareness around important issues of public concern.

Dr. Catalanello is a licensed psychologist in his home State of Louisiana, USA, and a member of the Faculty of Liberal Arts at Asian University, Chonburi. You may address questions and comments to him at [email protected], or post on his weblog at http://asianupsych.blogspot.com

What’s Hot and What’s Not in F&B:  Become the Hostess with the ‘mostest’

Dylan Counsel
F&B Manager,
Pattaya Marriott Resort and Spa

Food is a fantastic topic of conversation for almost all occasions, including weddings, parties, casual gatherings and even funerals.

July to September signifies the season of rain, slightly cooler temperatures, warmer foods and great quality beverages. Dinner at home is usually preferable during this period. In my restaurants, I often get asked by guests for recipes, secret ingredients or tips on how to create certain dishes. The inspiration from this column came from a guest who was throwing a dinner party and wanted a few tips.

One of my favorite things to do is to host a dinner party for close friends. Good conversation, full flavored creative food and sensational wines are major ingredients to a successful dinner party; however, there are some other tips that I can recommend.

* In essence a dinner party is a time to indulge, in food, wine and folly. Usually a dinner party takes place at the table, so dress the table up with polished glassware. Ruby colored glassware and amber are definitely in for the cooler months. Rustic colors, bare wooden table tops and unique china ware in different shapes and deeper colors are also in.

* Try to give your dinner party a theme. Some suggestions are to use a particular colored food such as mango or citrus fruits, an ingredient that is present in each dish or a wine dinner using wine from a particular region. Fancy dress parties, Hawaiian and 70’s themes are out! Make the focus the food and or wine.

* Try setting the table in an alternative place. If you are doing a wine dinner, set the table in a wine cellar. If you don’t have a wine cellar, place some wine racks around the table. Other locations can include by a fireplace or in a well-kept garden. Make the quarters close; it helps to create rapport amongst the guests.

* Light the candles early. Make the atmosphere warm, inviting and comfortable rather than formal.

* If your dinner is based around wine and food tasting make sure the conversation is varied. Too much wine info is outright boring, especially for those who just like to drink the wine without the background. Consult a sommelier regarding your wine selection. Bring the menu to them and try to match the wine and food. Put as much effort in the wine as you do in the food.

* If dining outside have shawls ready for your guests. It’s just a nice touch for those that feel the cold. Also remember the mosquito repellant.

* Write and print a menu. Send it with the initial invitation. This will help to build anticipation.

* Serve pre dinner drinks in a separate area to the dinner. This will also help to build anticipation. What’s hot at the moment in the drinks department? Cold beers from Belgium, warm rums from Jamaica and flavored vodkas are in at the moment. Try serving a vodka martini, rum with ginger ale and beers in well chilled tall glassware.

* If children are coming, let them join in the initial drinks and then have some activities ready for them to go onto after. Remember happy kids mean happy parents.

* Try not to use flowers. Get creative with your decoration. Try to keep in line with your theme. Use one kind of fruit in tall jars, use grapes if your theme is about wine, use bare branches, sticks and pods rather than overflowing bunches of flowers.

* Follow your theme through. Here’s an example; have lemon scented oil burning if your theme is citrus. Wear a yellow or green shirt or dress, use lemons and lime for decoration, garnish your food with lemons and lime, ensure each dish has a citrus theme. Use vodka martinis with a twist, have lemon scented cold towels on arrival, have lemon amenities in the bathroom and try to have music playing with the word lemon or lime in the lyrics.

* Make sure you have at least 4 courses, followed by freshly ground and brewed coffee. Remember that coffee is one of the most important factors in a dinner party. A great coffee will be the last thing they remember as your guests are leaving.

* Arrange taxis to pick up your guests and to drop them off. Ensure your guests arrive and get home safely.

For now that’s all from me. Good luck for your next party. Good Health, Great Food and Best Regards,
Dylan


Personal Directions: Coaching lets you rethink your strategy

by Christina Dodd

Have you reached that time in your career when you throw your hands up in exasperation and say to yourself, “What am I doing here?” Have you suddenly woken up to the fact that you are not really content with where you are headed and there is nothing of substance to motivate you? You are just in this space between spaces, trapped in the familiarity and sameness of things? You have to stay the distance because people depend on you, and if you made any changes that might affect the financial balance of your current situation and livelihood, then there would be serious consequences as a result. Is this you? Perhaps it may be someone you know.

There are people everywhere who suffer from this dilemma and find the challenge of change just too daunting and too difficult to even consider, let alone act upon. They feel that it is impossible to imagine themselves in “a better place”. Anything other than what they have become used to and have to “stick with” for whatever reasons, is just a dream, and the dream may as well be a million miles away.

And so we live, and we live with it. Some people accept and adapt, and put up with it because it’s the only thing to do. Others want to find a way out but don’t quite know what step they should take first, and consequently never take that step. And then there are those who do break free of the shackles around their lives and even though they have put themselves at perhaps great risk, they would do it again because the rewards of challenging and overcoming those routine and unhappy, unfulfilling years was worth every bit of effort.

If you are one (of the majority) who cannot “break free”, it may well be that the solution to this dilemma we are talking about may not necessarily be about changing the actual job or place of employment. It may well be that you need to rethink your strategy. Think about it, and think for a moment. You may realize that the changes to be made may well lie within yourself and your thinking, and the personal strategy you can develop in order to bring about the results and the fulfilment you so desire.

You are possibly saying by now, “How do I do this?”

My answer to your question lies in considering the idea of taking on a personal coach. That doesn’t mean to say that you don’t know what you’re doing and that you don’t know anything about who you are and what you want. It simply means that you more than likely would benefit from working through those areas of your life that cause you concern, with a professional coach who is skilled and experienced in helping you to develop your own “personal action plan” and to assist you in implementing that plan, and in providing support and follow-up during and after its implementation.

Going it alone and taking on this most tremendous task by yourself which, after all, is to bring about major differences to your life and those who live with you, can be an up-hill climb and struggle with numerous and major obstacles along the way. Just one obstacle, and that’s all it takes, can cause you to lose confidence and to give up. With someone at your side, however, encouraging you and helping you to focus your thoughts, to plan with detail, to consider and prepare for all the possible hurdles, you will be better equipped and motivated to get the results you want.

Think of a coach as a kind of neutral sounding board that you can say almost anything to because they are completely non-judgemental and have only your interests to serve. The bond or relationship that develops is unique in that there is nothing to suppress or to hinder you as happens when confiding with family members or friends for example. We have all experienced at some time or another in our lives when talking to a complete stranger just how pleasurable it is to discuss so many subjects all in a short space of time. I know from my own experience when I travel, how much I enjoy some of the conversations I have had with the passenger sitting next to me. As human beings we have the marvellous ability to open our minds and to feel free to express ourselves quite deeply and honestly with someone who we sense has a caring nature, and who is interested in listening to our story.

A coach can be a person who is there beside you in your personal endeavours in life as well as in the professional arena of your life covering your job, your career path as you work for others, or as you work for yourself and run your own business. Entrepreneurs and executives of small to major companies and organizations both private and public, require at times that special one-to-one “safe area” for want of a better expression, where they can be themselves without criticism and put-down to sort out the difficulties that confront them as they manage and lead their teams and organizations.

Professional coaching by trained and accredited, experienced coaches has become for many – a “must have”. It is not to say that those who have coaches are admitting weakness – quite the opposite – they are taking stock of what they have and in doing so taking their strengths to the next level, gaining along the way a wider view of how things really are and broadening their horizons through advancing self knowledge.

If personal or executive coaching is an area you are interested in and you would like to find out further information, please contact me at christina.dodd @ atalife coach.com or visit us at www.atalifecoach.com

If soft skills and management training for your company are more what you are looking for, then our training division will be more than able to assist.

Until next month … Give a dream an action plan, and suddenly it becomes a goal worth striving for!