I have a lovely sweet Thai GF. She lives with me and we get along really well, apart from one thing. She likes going out at night and will sometimes come back to our condo 3 or 4 o’clock in the morning. I can’t keep up with those hours, I have a responsible job and she just won’t stop being a night owl. I tried to get her to see that she is wasting “our” time by being out so late, but she just says I would be asleep anyway, and it is the only time she has to be with her friends. She used to work in a bar and it is with her bar friends that she goes out with. How do I get her to stop and see my side of this?
Have you heard the story, “You can take a girl out of the bar, but you can’t take the bar out of the girl?” It is with that background you have gone to be with this girl. Quite frankly, you are on a heading to nothing in that relationship. You will not get her to change. After all she is living a nice life with financial support and a nice condo. I imagine you are paying her a salary as well. Harry, my Petal, get out now while you still have a bank account. This girl is only thinking of herself, not your needs.