I spotted my boss’s wife in a Boys Town bar the other night. She and a friend were flirting with a couple of the boys, laughing and groping the two boys (dancers at the club). They didn’t see me, so I quietly slipped out. Should I tell my boss about her? Or should I tell her that I saw her when she comes in to do the salaries each month? Not sure what’s the best, Hillary.
Dear Voyeur Vicky,
You didn’t tell me in your letter just what you were doing there either, my spying Petal. Quite honestly, what your boss’s wife was doing there is none of your business. Her husband was probably in one of the girly bars next door, for all you know. The answer is for you to forget about it and let people have their fun.