Married flings and single flings


Dear Hillary,

I have two married guys in my condo block I have got to know pretty well.  Good guys, but at least once a week their chasing tail.  I reckon this isn’t the right way, but so far I’ve not said anything.  I’m not married, so I reckon it’s OK for me, but not for them.  Do you agree?  Should I tell them?


Dear Pete,

What grown-ups do in their own time is up to them.  You can’t push your standards of behavior onto others, no matter how ‘correct’ you believe you are.  You don’t know what the arrangements are in your friends condo’s with their wives, so they are not singing from the same hymn book as you, Petal.  Should you tell them?  No.