I read so much tripe about our bar girls. My own experience is that you can meet and fall in love with a lady from a bar. You can also be treated like a king and rest easy with the feeling that you have found a long term partner. I have been with my Thai wife now for some years and have been incredibly happy. My own experience of a former falang wife was that she gave up work once we were married and never expected to have to work again. She took more money from me in a month than my Thai partner has taken in two years and when we split up, she took everything else. I will take my chances with a bar girl any day over a falang lady. With any woman you will have to pay, one way or another. The Thai way is cheaper in the long run, believe me, and all you guys out there, start thinking and stop whining.
Dear Very Satisfied,
It is always nice for me to read a letter from someone who is not putting down our ladies of the night. Sure you have to pay for their company, that’s what they are there for. And the good ones do a fantastic job, much better than some day-time ladies, as Very Satisfied has written. Now there are good and bad everythings in life, but the way to choose is to go slowly and get to know your intended partner very well over a period of quite a few months. You will know her and she will know you. That’s the way you do it (Dire Straits).