Since everyone uses emails these days, how do you know whether the letters are genuine? I reckon some of them are using the fact they can hide behind nicknames and the email system to pull your leg. Do you honestly believe everyone who writes to you is real?
I am an Agony Aunt, not a detective, my Petal. Does it really matter if someone tells a few porkies? But I can recognize that behind every nickname there lies a frightened little boy who is having some kind of relationship problem, usually with our young Thai ladies. So, what’s your problem “Disbeliever”?