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Incredulous about A rating
Dear Sir,
So, Pattaya gets an ‘A’ rating for safety with a score of 82% by the
National Department of Safety Standards, eh? (Report page 2 Issue 42). I
would be fascinated to hear under what criteria these points were awarded.
Do you think they included any of the following?
Safety from breaking an ankle as you fall into one of the potholes on the
pavement?
Safety from falling off your motorbike as you use the same on the road?
Safety from twisting your neck as you try to walk down the pavement ducking
under the four foot high trees planted right in the middle? (South Pattaya
road-try it)
Safety from being run down as you have to walk in the road to avoid vendors
blocking the pavement?
Safety from being run down as you look right trying to cross the road, only
to find some fool driving on the wrong side?
Safety from having scaffolding come crashing through your roof as someone
carelessly builds a multi-storey building right next to your house?
(Adjacent report, same issue.)
Safety from having your house burst into flames because some unlicensed
idiot with a roll of insulating tape thought he was an electrician?
Safety from being ‘taken for a ride’ (pun intended) by some of the more
unscrupulous Baht bus drivers?
Safety from being mown down by a ten-wheeler or a bus at traffic lights
because the driver knows that red lights do not apply to anything with more
than two wheels?
Safety from being crushed in the stampede for the door (note the use of the
singular) in Big C when the fire breaks out?
Safety from being set upon by bar girls when you complain that your bill has
been ‘padded in the wrong bars?
Safety from............ etc., et al.
If Pattaya came second, it would be interesting to hear which places came
last in this competition, in order that all sensible people who would rather
not have their life insurance claimed posthumously could cross such obvious
death traps off their travel plans.
Meanwhile - doesn’t time just fly in Fun City? I see that they are
resurfacing the beach road in South Pattaya again. It seems like only a
couple of weeks since they did it last!! Reminds of the old adage - There’s
never enough time or money to do something right in the first place, but
there’s always enough of both to do it again.
Best Regards,
Peter Eades
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Irate over Tapken
Dear Sirs,
Please do us readers a favour and finally stop this imbecility about Tapken.
Nobody is actually interested in this guy, who has behaved like a leech,
taking advantage of other people and businesses for his own eccentric ego.
We are sick and tired of him, and find it most absurd if an established
newspaper like the Pattaya Mail is filling up empty space with those
meaningless obituaries. There are plenty of topics of public interest and
concern (such as the ruined 2nd part of Pattaya Beach Road), which should be
publicly discussed and complained about, and even a flimsy statement from
City hall in this regard would be more interesting.
So, please, let him rest in peace!
Hampton Jones
THE LAST RESORT
by Jay Patterson
Pattaya is a resort. According to the dictionary, resort
has several meanings. One is ‘A place where people go frequently for rest or
pleasure.’ In Pattaya, this could refer to the beaches, the sea or the hills
in the area.
The other meaning ‘is a person or thing to which one applies for aid.’
In Pattaya, one can find both manifestations of these definitions. The first
can be seen every day. People sitting on the beaches, taking walks in the
sun and enjoying various sports such as fishing, para-sailing, and
sunbathing. These are more pleasant aspects of Pattaya’s many delights.
The other definition, ‘a person or thing to which one applies for aid’ is a
rather sad but true situation in the Pattaya scene. It is usually called the
‘night life’.
There are activities that are better enjoyed at night. The night possesses a
magic which has always fascinated humans. Candlelight dinners, walks on the
beach in the moonlight and attending theatrical performances are enhanced by
the night’s enchantment. It has a romance, intimacy and a ‘mystic’
atmosphere.
There is also another side to ‘night life’. As was said in the article
Bargirls, the Inside Story’, in an earlier edition of Pattaya Mail, this
reporter, feeling knowledge deficient, wanted to take a look at another side
of Pattaya’s night life.
Knowing that male and female go-go bars exist for a certain purpose, I
wanted to find out about ‘Beer Bars’ and try to get the feel of why they
exist.
As stated in the earlier articles, most Farangs who have lived in Thailand
since childhood seldom go to these tourist venues, mainly due to lack of
interest.
A short time ago, the chance came. I went to one of Pattaya’s many beer
bars. From the street, they all appear to be rather similar in format. An
acquaintance affirmed this.
What interested this reporter was not the staff but the customers.
I did talk to the staff for a while though, as who could be a better source
of information about customers? The staff gave me the following
‘statistics’: The shortest length of time customers stayed averaged 2 hours,
but the majority stayed much longer. Most of their customers are ‘regulars’
and can be expected at about the same time every night. They also said that
most were heavy drinkers.
After entering and sitting down, I became fascinated, observing the people.
There was a melange of nationalities and ‘types’ and all were men. The one
thing they seemed to have in common was that they really had nothing in
common. Except alcohol.
The average age was approximately 40. The style of dress ranged from
beach-casual to blue jeans and Polo shirts. There were some sitting alone,
but most were in groups of 3 or four. All had obviously had quite a few
drinks and there was an atmosphere of hearty camaraderie. Lots of talking
and laughing.
But, after eavesdropping for a while, (sorry, but it’s a reporter’s job) the
main subject of conversation seemed to be about the faults of women,
Thailand, and the whole world. The other noticeable thing was that these
‘conversations’ were not conversations. There was no listening or exchange
of ideas. Each person would state their problem while the others in the
group supposedly listened, and then, without responding to their companion’s
speech, would launch into their own problems.
It was very sad that not one happy conversation was heard, and the laughter
mainly came from deriding the foibles of others and talking of past or
future conquests of women.
The thought also occurred that if these men were in the Western world, they
probably would not even like each other. But who do you talk to if you don’t
get along with the locals and there are few people of your own cultural
orientation around you?
After about an hour I felt that these men must be some of the loneliest
people I’d ever seen. The atmosphere began to make me feel depressed and I
wanted to be home in my warm bed with my books, my cat and a good friend.
The saddest thing was that I think this is what all these men wanted too.
But why didn’t they do this?
My answer came when another customer, whom we did not know, approached our
table. He was quite drunk and asked us where we came from. When I responded
that I came from Thailand, he slapped me belligerently on the side of the
head and called me a liar. I didn’t respond, but this clarified the
situation. If a person could do this to a total stranger, could he ever have
a close relationship with anyone?
Also, counting the number of drinks that people had downed in a single hour
I realised that quenching loneliness this way is expensive.
Asking an attractive, intelligent friend about his past relationships, he
responded, ‘The only kind I’ve had lately are the 500 hundred baht, thank
you very much, kind.’
Deciding I’d rather be on the outside looking in than the inside looking
out, I excused myself and escaped.
Approaching the motorcycle queue I heard a driver, “Here’s another one from
the zoo!’
When I spoke to the drivers in Thai, they were a bit embarrassed. ‘Just
visiting, I said.
‘What do they talk about in there?’ One driver asked.
‘Absolutely nothing,’ I answered.
Oh, like politicians,’ he rejoined. (This reporter guarantees the veracity
of this retort. Foreigners often don’t give Thai people the credit they
deserve for repartee.) And he didn’t hit me on the head.!
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Thai parents might not always be right, but they’re never wrong
by Sarawut Kraesaekarn
Sometimes what we feel is not always considered
‘correct.’ But it may be correct for the person feeling it. Other people may
see what we feel as being evil or selfish. Just as people are different, so
are their feelings.
What I have written are only the feelings of one person towards the people
who gave birth to him. Maybe very few people have had these feelings. He
only wants the people who gave him birth to know. Did he receive what he
deserved?
Time changes things. But it did not change his feelings. Even though much
time has passed he still lives with these feelings, alone.
Fight on, my friend. Every path is not beautiful.
In Thailand, we are taught that our mother and father love us as much as
their own lives. This is probably true. But who could know that this is not
always true?
In this real world it is assumed as a law of nature. But some parents only
give us birth and don’t give us life.
Do you ever think about the quality of the future life you are giving birth
to? Or is this life only a result of the act of mating? Is this result, a
human being, a wanted thing or only a bothersome by-product of sexual
desire? Do you look and think about our future when you conceive us? Do you
worry about us not having a future, even though we may have good jobs?
Those around us are constantly reminding us of our weak points. This can
cause life to be a material success but a spiritual wasteland. Some of us
wonder why our parents aren’t like those of others. Why didn’t they counsel
us when we made mistakes? Why didn’t they encourage us when we were
depressed? And then, why did they blame us for not being the way they
wanted?
I don’t blame anyone but myself for being born. You lady’s and gentlemen’s
nightly exertions brought us into the world. Now we can learn the value of
life. I have learned how valuable it is to have to work and fight with
people to maintain existence for myself. Not existence to share with a
mother or father but for myself, alone. It is wonderfully selfish not having
to worry about anyone except myself.
Sometimes I wonder what I have done wrong to be emotionally thrown away like
old underwear.
Didn’t the 9 months of carrying me around in your body mean anything? Or was
I a tumour that you were waiting to have removed when the time came?
I have a dog. She had puppies. I saw her defend them with her life. You are
human beings. Aren’t you ashamed in the eyes of the dog?
If all of us took a little more responsibility for the life we create, there
would be no delinquents. No beggars. No children going through garbage to
find food. No child prostitution.
All of us should realise for every one of the children mentioned above there
were two irresponsible adults. Our future is in their hands of these adults.
Because what is good is good. It needs no help. There are good people who
are good parents in the world.
Without the good ones there would be no bad ones.
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