Foreigners in Pattaya opt for property and luxury over gold for Thai girlfriends

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On Pattaya Beach, a retiree consoles his young Thai girlfriend — perhaps with promises of high-end phones or other gifts instead of gold, as prices soar out of reach. (Photo by Jetsada Homklin)

PATTAYA, Thailand – Once a common token of affection, gold has historically been a symbolic gift from foreign men to their Thai girlfriends, a tangible sign of care and commitment. Yet recent trends in Pattaya suggest a marked shift: many long-term foreign residents are increasingly skipping gold, citing its skyrocketing price, and choosing alternative forms of investment or luxury gifts instead.

On September 26, domestic gold prices hit an all-time high, with gold jewelry retailing close to 58,000 baht per baht-weight for ornamented pieces. Bars and jewelers alike report that, while tourists and locals follow the market closely, the surge has led to a noticeable decline in casual gold purchases for personal gifts. The reasoning is simple: with gold at historic highs, many foreigners are unwilling to pay what they see as exorbitant sums for symbolic purposes.



Interviews with several long-term residents in Pattaya reveal a clear pattern. Instead of gold, these men prefer investing in tangible assets such as property, vehicles, or other luxury items. Condominiums, beachfront apartments, and long-term investment in real estate are increasingly favored as both status symbols and practical financial moves. Luxury watches, high-end electronics, and branded goods have also replaced gold jewelry as the gift of choice.

“I’d rather invest in something that appreciates or can be enjoyed every day,” said one European retiree on Soi Buakhao, who has spent over a decade in Pattaya. “Gold is fine, but right now, just a very tiny, thin necklace costs nearly 20,000 baht—barely anyone can even see your girlfriend’s wearing one. With prices like this, it makes more sense to put money into a condo or a car, which benefits both of us.”

Critics argue that this trend underscores how the economic reality of a strong Thai baht has reshaped traditional social dynamics. Gold, once a relatively affordable and culturally significant gesture, has become an expensive commodity that many long-term residents no longer see as a viable form of gifting. Instead, investments in property or luxury goods are framed not just as gifts but as smart financial planning, often providing returns or tangible utility over time.

For local women who traditionally received gold as a symbol of trust and commitment, this shift presents a cultural adjustment. While some embrace modern alternatives, others lament the loss of ritualized symbolism and the intimacy of the gold-gifting tradition.


Market analysts note that if gold prices continue to rise alongside global uncertainties—driven by movements in the U.S. dollar, bond yields, and international trade tensions—this trend may solidify, further diverting foreign spending from personal adornment toward larger, more practical investments.

In Pattaya’s evolving landscape of long-term foreign residents, it seems clear that gold’s sentimental value is increasingly being replaced by pragmatism, luxury, and long-term security, reflecting both global economic pressures and shifting cultural expectations.