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Money matters: Private School + University = Better Pay for your Kids

Graham Macdonald
MBMG International Ltd.

Further to the recent flurry of recent articles eulogising the benefits of a private education and how to fund it, I came across a recent article that showed that there are quantifiable financial benefits later for those who attend a private school and a top university, whose graduates can earn over three times as much as their contemporaries. To put it another way, an independent school education then followed by a degree from a top college can add more than USD 100,000 per year to a person’s earnings.
The research was carried out on behalf of the UK government which paid the Economic and Social Research Council to do the study. Hundreds of children who started their secondary education in the 1980s were closely monitored. The Council came back with some astounding results:
Those who went through the privileged education system as mentioned above were FOUR times more likely to earn more than £90,000 a year in their thirties than those who attended ‘new’ universities (ex-polytechnics); most of whom were paid less than £30,000 per annum.
From those who were classified as the top earners over 85% had gone to private schools, whilst 61% of those being paid less than £30,000 had gone to state schools.
The paper will be published later this year by London University. The students came from a variety of backgrounds. Most of them are doing well but the highest achievers were those who had gone through the British public school (private education) system and then followed this by going to a leading, established university.
The study showed that 41% of those that went to top, elite universities were in the highest social and occupational class. This compared to 28% of them who went to ‘old’ universities and only 8% who went to the ‘new’ universities. Researchers found that there was also a strong relationship between earning levels and the status of the university.
The study goes on to say that, “Meritocratic arguments could be used to explain the connection between schooling and earnings, as privately schooled respondents obtained higher A-Levels and more went to Oxbridge. However, the legacy of private education is also evident in the relative success of a small group who did not go to university, which suggests that an elite private education confers advantages other than high levels of academic attainment.”
Different research by the London School of Economics, conducted over a fifteen year period from the early eighties to the late nineties, found that the proportion of children from the richest families who had completed a degree by the age of 23 went up from 20% to almost fifty percent. In the same time period, the number of graduates from the poorest families only managed to increase from 6% to nine percent.
That’s the good news. The bad news that if you want your children to attain these heights then you are going to have to pay for it. The phrase, “Ready, Willing and Able” comes to mind.
Ready – Without doubt, “Knowledge is Power” and higher education is almost becoming a pre-requisite to acquiring a good job. It is the key to open the door to a professional career. Many parents will consider the cost of private education as a lifetime investment in their children’s future.
Willing – If you are living overseas then a private education may well be a requirement much earlier than may have been the case had you stayed at home in your own country. Whilst education is an investment for your children it does not come cheap and unless you planned for it could mean:
- Re-mortgaging the family home to pay the fees or borrowing from a bank.
- Depleting present savings and retirement accounts that should be for you in your dotage.
Able – Assuming that you start to save as soon as your first child is born (or, even better still, before), we estimate that educating each of your children will cost in the region of USD 300,000. This figure assumes that each child will commence nursery school at the age of two and will continue through to a university degree and education fees rise by an average of 6% per annum.
This is for private education here in Thailand and then foreign tertiary education.
The news is far worse if you want your child educated privately in somewhere like the UK. Most schools now cost about GBP 20,000 (USD 35,000) per annum and do not forget that these schools increase their fees each and every year. For example, in 2001 the fees for Eton were GBP 15,660 (USD 27,300) and they are now GBP 23,688 (USD 41,454). That is an increase of 51% in five years!
The earlier you start saving for all this then the less you will have to pay on a regular basis and any investment, however small, is better than none.
Think about the amount of time your children could spend in full time education. If you start them off at two years old and they want to be a doctor or lawyer then they will not be qualified until they are 24 years old. You may have to pay for a gap year as well so that is funding them for 23 years. As more and more couples choose to become parents later in life, that does raise the spectre of having to defer retirement until your youngest child completes his or her education so that you have the financial wherewithal to support them through this. We have clients whose youngest child was born while their father was in his 40s or 50s – add 23 years more of having to go to work isn’t always the retirement planning that they had in mind!
Also, it is not just a matter of having to pay the schooling; you will have to fund music lessons, field trips, school clothes and sports equipment, etc. All of this will be even more if your child becomes a full time boarder.
Despite all this, few would argue that a good education is the most valuable gift you can give your child. Even though the increase in the costs of private education has consistently outpaced inflation, its popularity has remained as strong as ever. However, children’s education is rarely seen high on the list of financial planning priorities. In fact, over 70% of parents suffer personally as they try to finance school fees from current earnings or short term savings. A child starting at school can coincide with the return to work of the parent who has stayed at home to look after them. Alternatively, you may find that a return to work is necessary to fund the school fees. This strain on your day to day finances or change to your pattern of living could be avoided by thoughtful planning.
With foresight, you can use an investment plan that will provide you with the growth potential to give you part or even all of the money you need to ensure that you have the ability to choose the best education for your children.
One of the most important things that you need when taking out an Educational Fee Plan is security. In other words, the knowledge that, irrespective of global or local economic conditions, your child’s financial needs will be met. These plans should be safe, not speculative. They should be based on guaranteed returns from substantial, reputable companies based in safe and secure jurisdictions.
These products should also offer the security that, if anything happens to you such as death, critical illness or long term unemployment then your child’s education remains provided for. For this reason, many educational fee programmes are actually a combination of investment and insurance.
Thus, it can be seen that your children will benefit greatly if you can afford to send them through the private education system. Go on, give your child a chance and do something now. In fact, if they do well by you they may even be able to pay for you in your dotage – now that is a good investment!
Carpe diem as they say!

The above data and research was compiled from sources believed to be reliable. However, neither MBMG International Ltd nor its officers can accept any liability for any errors or omissions in the above article nor bear any responsibility for any losses achieved as a result of any actions taken or not taken as a consequence of reading the above article. For more information please contact Graham Macdonald on [email protected]



Snap Shots: Look before you leap

by Harry Flashman

A few weeks ago, I wrote, “How many times when you are taking a photograph do you look at the background? If you are honest, then the vast majority of you will reply, “Never.” Unfortunately, the wrong background, fussy, cluttered or “jarring” is a sure-fire way to spoil what could have been a great picture. In your haste and eagerness to make the subject the “hero” you forget to look at the background, being so engrossed in making the foreground subject look good.”

This article spurred on Gordon, another of the local camera enthusiasts who came with the photo he took of his pride and joy Mercedes when it was new. I have published Gordon’s photo with the column this week. Take a good look. There was the car, sparkling and pristine, parked in front of a rubbish bin! Gordon even admitted that about 50 meters down the road there was a beautiful park he could have used as the backdrop! However, in the excitement of the moment, all he could see was the “hero” and did not see the background.
While we have Gordon’s Mercedes in front of us, a few pointers on car photography is in order. Photographing cars is a very specialized field, and there are professional photographers all over the world who just make their living snapping cars. I met one from Japan who used to shoot the car in his studio in Tokyo, then travel to different locations and shoot the background, finally putting the two elements together back in his Japanese studio. This was actually much more difficult than you would imagine, as he had to get the lighting on the car to match the lighting direction on the background location. The height of the camera from the floor in the studio had also to be same as the height of the location camera from the ground. He also used a very large plate camera to get his shots.
However, back to you and me with our new Yaris or whatever. If you stand and take the shot, you will make the car look small and insignificant. This is not what you want to portray. If nothing else, a motor car is a significant investment (or hole in the bank account).
For most cars, use a wide angle lens (around 24 mm is good, but 28 mm is fine), get down on your knees and shoot from the three quarter front position. Turn the steering wheel so that you can see some of the tread on the tyre and even turn on the headlights and flashers as well. This will make a dramatic shot.
Regarding exposures. If the car is a dark colour, underexpose by one f stop to get that rich depth in the paint. If the car is white, however, overexpose by one or even two f stops to make the white really white and not the 18 percent gray the meter wants to give you!
By the way, it seems that I am not the only one ringing the bell for film as the photographic medium, as I received this letter the other day from an enthusiast in Yasothon:
Dear Harry Flashman and Fans,
Analog Science Fict and Fact May 2006 ran a short story by Jerry Oltion, “Slide Show” (pages 88-94) about the demise of both slide film and bulbs for slide projectors. This generated quite o bit of talk at URL http://www.analogsf.com/discus/ Analog Discussion Board, General Discussion: in the May 2006 Issue!
With regard to “Slide Show,” they discuss various kluges, contraptions, methods and lessons learned in using a digital camera to capture images from slides. The discussion also includes the comment that black and white is the only archival-quality photographic media.
Frank Lee in Yasothon
Further to this topic, I have just picked up a Nikon D50, courtesy of my photographic friend Ernie Kuehnelt, to test against my Nikon FM2n. I will report further on these two cameras in the next couple of weeks.


Modern Medicine: Giving up cigarettes – a personal experience

by Dr. Iain Corness, Consultant

I used to smoke 45 cigarettes a day. I gave up 24 years, 10 months ago at 10 o’clock in the morning, not that I’m counting or anything! It was probably one of the most momentous decisions I have ever made, and definitely one of the best decisions I ever made about my health.
It was 1981 and I had started smoking as a medical student around 20 years previously. It was just the done thing at the time. We all smoked, it made us feel older and more mature. After all our fathers all smoked, so it was almost a ‘badge’ of adulthood. A rite of passage, perhaps.
As the evidence began to mount up against cigarette smoking at the end of the ‘70’s and the early ‘80’s, I found myself in the ridiculous position of advising people to give up smoking, while I hid my ashtray in the bottom drawer of my desk, and waved my hand around a lot before the next patient came in!
Like all smokers, I was able to rationalise my stand. I was advising patients whose lung function tests were down, but mine were perfect. If mine fell, then I certainly would give up smoking immediately. Yes, you are way in front of me, aren’t you! I had to test my lung function machine one day – and there was the proof – my respiratory function was 15 percent below the “average” for my age and height. It was ‘bite the bullet’ time! The biter was bit, hoist by my own petard and other aphorisms.
So I just gave up smoking. It was going to be easy, because I still considered myself to be a “social” smoker. I could give up when I felt like it. I expected that there would be a couple of ‘difficult’ days, but then the cravings would abate and I would be smoke free again. Two days was an understatement. For two weeks I would follow other smokers down the road, nostrils flared and twitching as I desperately tried to get a whiff of their second hand nicotine. I would look at ashtrays, wondering if I could take a quick lick before anyone would notice my bizarre behaviour. Really, it was a very stressful time of my life.
But after two weeks, the cravings became less, I was able to have a beer without looking for a cigarette at the same time and I had schooled myself into saying, “Thanks, but I don’t smoke,” when offered a cigarette. But it was still very difficult.
In fact, it still is very difficult. I am sure that if I smoked a cigarette today I would be smoking 20 tomorrow and 45 the day after. But I don’t, because I made a conscious decision, based on medical knowledge, all those years ago!
Today, the medical evidence is not just suggestive, it is totally compelling. Cigarette smoking increases your chances of getting just about everything you don’t want, from crow’s feet to cataracts to cancers (all of them, not just lung cancer). So why do we still smoke, any rational member of society would ask? The simple answer is that we, as a society, have been manipulated by big business into taking an extremely addictive drug called nicotine.
Like all addicts we do not wish to admit to addiction, saying, “I can kick the habit any time I want. I just don’t want to right now.” It isn’t your ‘fault’ that you are continuing to smoke. It isn’t your fault that you have returned to smoking after some time of being a non-smoker. It is a drug of addiction and next week I’ll tell you how to stop – permanently!


Heart to Heart with Hillary

Dearest Hillary,
I just moved here to the land of smiles after my wife Sally Sue passed after being stabbed 25 times. I’ve come to Pattaya because I’ve been told that the women are very attractive, but on my first nite, I found a lovely girl and we were about to do the deed when Joob the girl I met, turned out to be a man. I was very shocked and called the police. Please give me some help, I feel partially homosexual, and I’m contemplating suicide because I miss my wife and want to join her next to God in heaven. Please reply soon. By the way, I love your work and the way you can endlessly help people. I want to be like you in my next life.
Cheers from Alabama!
Billy Joe
Dear Billy Joe,
There is so much in your letter, I am unsure where to start. Now, taking Sally Sue first and the “passed after being stabbed 25 times.” Was that all at the same time, or are we looking at separate incidents? Hopefully this was all at once, not that I would wish that on anyone (not even Mistersingha), but if you’re going to go, get it over quickly would be my idea. And did they catch the perpetrator(s)? Or was it you? I also wonder about “passed”. Did you mean to write “passed away”, or was it just that she “passed” on coming with you to the Land of Smiles? Such a shame, if this was the case, as your friend Joob could have helped her. However, it is very important to get ‘closure’ on traumatic events such as this, so I hope that writing about it has helped, my Petal. Or helped Sally Sue.
Now, about feeling “partially homosexual”, I need to know more details here. Which part of you feels this way? Have you thought that perhaps you are bisexual? This is nothing to do with riding bicycles in Alabama, by the way. Your friend from the first night, Joob, could have helped you with this conundrum as well, if you hadn’t called for the coppers.
You also worry me with your implied threats of suicide so that you can meet Sally Sue, who is apparently next to God in heaven. I’m not sure that any of the usual gods are that enthusiastic about having young ladies with 25 stab wounds lying next to them anywhere, let alone in heaven where they can be seen by cherubic children with harps, if any of the classical paintings of life in heaven are anything to go by. (Anyway, I hate harp music, and I believe it also gives you ‘harpes’ which can last a lifetime.)
You have also answered your own question about the contemplation of suicide. It is not going to get you nearer to Sally Sue, because you believe that you are coming again in a next life as an Agony Aunt like me, while Sally Sue continues to leak away in heaven. Life as an Agony Aunt isn’t all champers and chocolates, or even beer and skittles, let me assure you. Stay where you are, would be my advice.
No, Billy Joe from Alabama, it is better that you get on with life down here and wait for the second or third week before you “do the deed” as you so quaintly put it. A little grope for the grapes will soon sort out the men from the boys (sorry, girls) if you must resort to this type of behavior in your efforts to forget Sally Sue. Enjoy your time in the Land of Smiles!
Dear Hillary,
I am an American and I want to buy a house here in Thailand, but I believe it is not possible for me to do this. Is this right? If so, is there a way around this problem because I really would like to do this.
Joe
Dear Joe,
I don’t know who told you this, my Petal, but they are wrong. Buying a house is very easy for foreigners here, it’s just ‘owning’ it that is a little more difficult. Let me explain, even though any reputable real estate person could give you this advice better than I can. ‘Buying’ means giving somebody (known as the seller) a pile of money, for which they will give you a pile of bricks sitting on a lump of dirt. To do this very quickly, I suggest you go to the nearest beer bar and ask to see one of the real estate consultants there who can be recognized by the fact they will invite you to “sit down please, sexy man”. This young lady will help you through the paperwork and Thai laws and statutes, and at the end of the time you will have managed to complete your dream of buying a house here in Thailand. The only catch is that the title deeds will be in her name, not yours, but up till the time of the title deeds being issued, you will also have a very faithful companion. After the issuance of said title deeds, things generally change somewhat. That gets us back to the differences between ‘buying’ and ‘owning’. Please go and ask for a reputable real estate agent, and not in the beer bars. By the way, you’re not from Alabama, are you?


A Female Perspective: Men on Marriage

with Sharona Watson

There are two sides to every story – usually. Certainly, I think that you have to be ready to listen to another point of view, even if you might violently disagree with it. I don’t mean that you shouldn’t react in a way that you think is appropriate – you don’t have to ‘tolerate’ someone else’s view – but you can let them finish, whoever they are. It seems to me that a lot of problems are caused by not being willing to listen, not only in marriage but in the world as a whole.

Marriage – a cynic’s view?
In fact, the very meaning of the word ‘listen’ often seems to be misunderstood. To me, real listening means putting yourself in the other person’s shoes. Being them for a short time. Considering the unconsiderable for just a moment – that you might be wrong and the other person might be right. As for me, I hate being interrupted and men, I’m afraid, seem to be very bad at this. If you don’t believe me, listen to a conversation involving men and women. (Although I am ashamed to say that I have sometimes been accused of interrupting others myself). I find interruptions so disrespectful because it means that one person basically considers that what they have to say is more important or more correct. And if they won’t even let you finish saying what you want to say, how can they tell?
Anyway, in the spirit of giving the other half of the conversation a chance to be heard, this week I thought it would only be fair to investigate what men thought about the institution of marriage, not from my point of view but from theirs. Give them a chance to speak their mind. I recently asked some men about parenthood and some of what they said seemed to make sense. Although, not all of it, of course. In fact in general, I’d say that I’ve found men far less forthcoming than the women I have spoken to; nonetheless, I don’t want to be accused of neglecting men. In fact, I hope I can learn something from talking to them
The first man I questioned was fellow journalist Caspian Pike, who writes extensively for national and international newspapers and magazines. He’s been married for almost fifteen years to a medical doctor, who I suppose, due to their professional lives, he hardly ever sees? “Well maybe (laughing) that’s why we’ve been together for fifteen years!” Caspian quipped.
What was it, I wondered, that he was looking for, when he decided he wanted to get married? “Actually,” Caspian began, “I wouldn’t have minded not getting married. I don’t mean I don’t appreciate being married; it’s just that I regard the ‘institution of marriage’ as you call it, a little out of date. I don’t think you need to be married to be in a long-lasting, loyal relationship, enjoying all those things that marriage is supposed to bring.”
This was very ‘new man’, I suggested. “Look, in a way you’re right. I don’t often see Enya (his Irish wife). We can joke about it, but you need to keep a marriage fresh. We work in very different fields pretty indeterminate hours, we don’t have children, so we have retained our independence. What that does mean is that we have to be very sure of our commitment to each other, deep down inside. That is what I was looking for in a relationship. I think I’m very lucky to have found it. In that sense, I suppose that marriage was just the icing on the cake.”
Having decided to ‘take the plunge’ did he consider then (and now) that there might be qualities in his chosen partner which would be able to stand the test of time, that he would be able to savour the rest of his life? Caspian continued, “Yes, definitely. I certainly tried to look beyond my wife’s beauty, if you know what I mean? I think she’s pretty, very pretty. Maybe when I first met her I was thinking about her prettiness a lot. Sex and everything. But when you make that commitment to a person, when one day you wake up and think, ‘Yep, this is the person I could grow old with’ I think it means you have recognised qualities which are more timeless than physical passion. Oops, I don’t want it to sound like I don’t still have physical passion (looks concerned) – it’s just that, well, you look at the caring side, the compatibility in all parts of your life. You start asking yourself questions like; Do you fit well together? Is she likely to be an equal partner? Is her mother a nightmare? (laughs) Worse, will she end up looking like her mother?” (We both laugh)
I appreciated the points Caspian was making. I’ve often wondered whether my own life would have been different if Andy and I had never got married and we’d just stayed together as ‘partners’. What difference does it make, being married? Caspian kind of provided an answer; “The thing about marriage, the ring, the ceremony, the whole legality of it all, is that it confirms you in your beliefs. In a way it’s reassuring to know that society recognises and values the fact that you love someone and will create some kind of security for you both in law. On the other hand, I also think that sometimes, this sense of security can lead to people taking each other for granted. That hasn’t happened with Enya and me, partly because we have to really find the time to be together. So when we do see each other, we are genuinely pleased and it’s great. Actually I miss her.”
So you believe in monogamy, then? “I wondered if you were going to ask me that! Yeah, sure. I think I believe in trust first and monogamy follows from that. Obviously there are times when you think about that – it’s not really fashionable to be faithful, is it? Enya and me though, we set our own standards and we’re pretty happy with each other. I’m proud to call her my wife.”
Next week: More Men Open Up
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