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World Gems Collection Center sets another record for Pattaya

The Stephenson Locomotive Society Celebrates

Christmas: Time For A Cool Yule

British Chamber Xmas Bash 8th December

Pattaya now - seen from two different views

Christmas Letter 1999

Trust is essential for leaders

World Gems Collection Center sets another record for Pattaya

Largest in Asia

In these days of bigger is better, Pattaya can now boast yet another “big” record, albeit regional. The World Gems Collection Center, officially opened at 9:19 a.m. on December 12th, is the largest of its kind in Asia.

World Gems is situated in a modern building spreading out over eight rai of land next to Pattaya City Hall on North Pattaya Road. And not only is the multi-million baht Center the biggest in Asia, it can also proudly say that it contains a very large selection of the many gemstones the area is famous for, including the Siam ruby.

The opening ceremony at the Pattaya World Gems Collection was headed by the Deputy Prime Minister and Minister of Interior Sanan Khajornprasad and attended by a group of other guests of honor.

The center is set up as a showroom of beautiful jewelry for sale, but is also a “living museum” of sorts, showcasing rare gems and giving visitors a glimpse into how fine jewelry is produced.

The center is divided into four separate zones. In zone one, demonstrations are held showing the step-by-step procedures of making the nine gems representing the planets, as well as other precious stones.

The second zone displays the procedures for making fine jewelry, including the various steps in the process that has given Thailand a world renowned reputation for producing jewelry with excellent craftsmanship.

The third zone is an exhibition room with presentations and displays showing very rare stones and 800 different minerals from around the world.

The fourth zone is the center’s showroom with the finished jewelry on sale. This includes over 10,000 different styles of rings, bracelets and necklaces in popular designs. The fourth zone also includes a collection of cut crystal and Buddhist images decorated with gems. All presented in a relaxing atmosphere.

Deputy Prime Minister and Minister of Interior Sanan Khajornprasad presided over the opening ceremony on December 12. Other guests of honor included the Mayor of Saensukh Municipality Somchai Khunpleum, Minister of Interior Watana Adsawahem, Chairman of the Standing Committee on Tourism of the House of Representatives Santsak Ngamphiches, and the owner of the World Gems Collection Center Thongchai Rojrungrangsi, all welcomed by Chonburi Governor Sujarit Prachimnan.

The well-known Luang Pho Utama, representing the Buddhist clergy, also participated in the opening ceremony.

The guests were given a tour of the new facility, after which 10 professional models displayed the finished merchandise.

The center also has two branches in Bangkok, on Sri Ayudthaya and Silom Roads. The new facility will compete with other world class gem centers in Hong Kong and Singapore.

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The Stephenson Locomotive Society Celebrates

by John D. Blyth

The Stephenson Locomotive Society of Britain marked the ninetieth anniversary of its foundation on 11th December. A group of persons interested in the then universal steam railway locomotive, and wishing to know more about it, held the first meeting of the Society in Croydon, South London, on that day. Both amateurs and professionals were involved, and soon there was disagreement as to policy, and this led to a ‘break-away’ group mainly of the professionals. They went ahead to form their own group, which eventually, in 1911, became the much respected Institution of Locomotive Engineers, now the Railway Division of the Institution of Mechanical Engineers.

Activities envisaged were visits to railway workshops and locomotive depots, and indoor lectures, debates, etc. The undersigned, a member for fifty years, is unable to recall a debate being announced, although there have been many in the correspondence columns of the Society’s ‘Journal’, issued to members as part of their rights from subscription.

Reports of the Society’s activities were at first published in the long-defunct ‘Railway & Travel Monthly’, but from 1924 a printed circular was issued monthly, being replaced in 1930 by a properly printed monthly magazine. It is a coincidence that this month also sees the 800th edition of this, the ‘S.L.S. Journal’, whose present editor, Bruce Nathan, has brought to it a highly professional appearance with colour, as well as monochrome illustrations in most issues.

The society had hardly got its feet when the 1914 War broke out, and the hoped-for program of visits to railway premises was cut short; the first foray abroad had already taken place, though, with visits to the locomotive depots of the Northern Railway of France at Calais and Boulogne, in the summer of 1910; similar difficulties, and censorship of the contents of the ‘Journal’ had to be faced between 1939 and 1945. Peak membership was achieved in the 1960s, in part due to the coming elimination of steam traction on Britain’s railways, and a notable series of steam-hauled special trains organized in the final days. The Society was in the lead, also in the preservation of historic locomotives, as they purchased the ‘Gladstone’ locomotive from the then Southern Railway; this is still in the National Railway Museum at York.

In all its years, the society has had but four Presidents, of which only the present one, Mr. R.H.N. Hardy, has been a professional railway man. A limited number of Vice Presidents may be appointed at the discretion of the Society’s Council, and these have, in the past, included a number of famous British locomotive engineers, and also M. Andre Chapelon of the French State Railways, considered by many to be the most forward-looking and successful locomotive designer of all time.

The writer of these notes served in Army (Royal Engineers) Railway Workshops in the Middle East at the end of the last War, and then served the newly-Nationalized British Railways for 31 years, retiring in 1978; he then became active in our Society’s affairs, becoming editor of the ‘Journal’ in 1985, for four years, and chairman for a short period from 1991, a post from which he had to retire, to remove to Thailand for health reasons.

The Society has published a number of books at various times; in 1939 a book of locomotive drawings was published at the princely sum of 3 shillings and 6 pence (about 11 Baht!). This is most successful, and an attempt was made in 1951 to publish a second book, but all the old-fashioned metal blocks for printing the drawings were destroyed in a fire at the printers’ premises just before printing was begun. The work done on this day by the late Arthur Cook was not lost, however, and the present writer, with modern printing methods, was able, in 1992, to produce a successful second book of drawings, fifty-two years after the first!

Not as big as in its prime, the Society still discharges its original aims, although the scope of interest has been widened to encompass all aspects of railway working and technology; with the demise of steam traction, always a big attraction in the past, it still publishes six ‘Journals’ a year, and has indoor meetings at twelve Centres in England and one in Scotland.

I am always delighted to hear from those interested in our Society, especially possible new members. You can contact me on (038) 426030, ext 112, or by Post at P.O. Box 97 at Pattaya Post Office.

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Christmas: Time For A Cool Yule

The songs and music cover the spectrum of the sublime to the ridiculous, from the immortal “Silent Night” composed and written in 1818 in Oberdorf, Austria (near Salzburg), to such dreadful fare as “Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer” produced, no doubt, by some aspiring song-writer, with a keen eye on the cash register.

Another classic, which appeared around the same time as “Silent Night” some 150 years ago, is Charles Dickens’ much-loved story, “A Christmas Carol”, in which the great master himself reflects the Victorian era of a cosy fireside family gathering, juxtaposed to an almost-apocalyptic vision of doom.

Dickens’ portrayal of one of literature’s meaner characters, Ebenezer Scrooge, could well be applied to more than a few of our contemporaries. A Disney adaptation of the work, “The Grinch who stole Christmas” is still as popular as it was 30 years ago - at least in the United States.

Scrooge, according to Dickens, was “tight-fisted, squeezing, wrenching, grasping, scraping, clutching, covetous old sinner, hard and sharp as flint...self-contained and solitary as an oyster.” (I did not know that Mr Dickens had access to my own biodata, that long ago!)

Santa Claus seems to spend the year in the Northern wastes, preparing for his annual journey, to bring delights to tiny children and a legion of very large adults. There are, however, thousands of Santas stalking the world’s cities, ringing a bell and collecting money - often for the “Santa Cause” or, could that read for the “Santa claws”.

As a rather rebellious child in Tasmania, where Christmas strikes at mid-summer, even in a heat wave, with the thermometer hovering around 32 degrees Celsius, we suffered through a “traditional Christmas dinner” - heavy fare indeed - and tried to recover on the beach for the next few days. A little different to Christmas in the northern climes!

Nevertheless, although I partook of all the rich and inappropriate food, I was always a little sceptical of myth of Santa Claus. The only ‘clauses’ which really influenced my life were those in English grammar lessons, where I was often disciplined for my “hanging clauses”.

But, regardless of a wilful child in Tasmania, the Christmas tradition is rich and widespread, with many national variations. Take, for example, the feast of Saint Nicholas, celebrated on December the sixth by the Dutch. The folk-lore surrounding this is much closer to the popular version of Santa Claus, even though Saint Nicholas lived in Myrna, now a part of Turkey, some seventeen centuries ago.

According to chroniclers, Saint Nicholas, on one occasion, to save a man’s eldest girl-child from being sold into prostitution to support the impoverished family, threw a sack of gold coins down the chimney of the slum dwelling where they eked out an existence. By chance, the coins fell into one of the young girl’s stockings, hanging to dry in the fire-place. Sound familiar?

Of course, one of the most enduring - and endearing - Christmas songs is the immortal “Twelve Days of Christmas” and its leitmotif: “and a partridge in a pear tree”, reputedly persevering for more than 800 years.

But, looking - albeit superficially - at some of these aspects of Christmas, which are well known to all of us, there are some other historical perspectives which may not be so well known; for example, some of the famous people, events and discoveries sharing the same birth-date as Jesus.

Three people come to mind immediately: British novelist Rebecca West, hotelier Conrad Hilton and the former Egyptian President Anwar Sadat, who was slain in 1981, were all born on 25 December.

Sir Isaac Newton who, reputedly, seeing an apple fall from a tree in his parent’s garden in Lincolnshire, created, eventually, the theory of gravity for humanity to ponder and use. A natural-born scientist who formulated calculus and invented the reflecting telescope, Sir Isaac also studied alchemy and astrology. Yet, he still found time between his birth on 25 December, 1642 and his death in 1727, to follow many other interests, including a history of creation.

Film immortals, W.C. Fields and Charlie Chaplin both died on the 25th of December, in 1946 and 1977, respectively.

Moving on from the czars of the film industry to another kind of czar, two heads of state were crowned on the 25th of December, almost 1,000 years and 10,000 kilometers apart. William the Conqueror was crowned in Westminster Abbey, after he defeated King Harald the Second, during the Battle of Hastings. A millennium later, in 1926, Emperor Hirihito acceded to the throne, the 124th in line of the Chrysanthemum dynasty.

The action moved back to the Abbey on Christmas Day, 1950 when Scottish nationalists ‘removed’ the “Stone of Scone” which had formerly been used to crown Scottish kings in a town called “Old Scone”, once the capital of Scotland. It was originally removed in 1296 by Edward l who proclaimed himself the King of Scotland and England. After a few more historical machinations, the stone was recovered and now sits again at the Abbey.

Christmas Day in 1497 was very different to any of the above, in as much as the intrepid Portuguese explorer, Vasco da Gama, sailing for India, discovered Natal, opening the way to the South African hinterland.

He eventually landed at Calicut, but retreated under hostile attacks from the indigenous people, returning many years later as the Portuguese Viceroy to India. He died there on Christmas Eve, 1524.

Meantime, his fellow-explorer Genovese Christopher Columbus, under the patronage of Ferdinand and Isabella of Spain, set out to discover America. On 25 December 1492, his ship the “Santa Maria” hit a reef and sank off the coast of Hispanola in the West Indies.

Columbus spent his Yule with the natives and built a fort from the timbers of the wrecked Santa Maria. And the name of this first European structure in the New World? - “Navidad”, Spanish for Christmas.

So, when you are enjoying that wine amongst European and North American snow or on a sun-kissed beach in Tasmania, think a little about some other happenings on the 25th of December and some of the people who share the birthday of Jesus.

Or as one would say in Alabama, USA, at this time of the year: “Hey dude, y’all have a cool Yule!”

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British Chamber Xmas Bash 8th December

by a Special
Correspondent

The British Chamber of Commerce Thailand Eastern Seaboard held its second annual Xmas Bash at the Bangsaray Club on 8th December. It was an informal get together for members and non-members along with their families.

The guests started off the evening with a few drinks so as to try and ward off the Arctic cold blowing in from the Gulf of Thailand (?). We were then all treated to some excellent entertainment from St. Andrew’s International School.

The four original founders of the BCCT Eastern Seaboard Committee in 1998 - from left Greg Watkins (BCCT), Peter Currie (GKN), Chris Ulyatt (ACS) and Chairman Graham Macdonald (MBMG) with current committee member Jim Howard.

To start things off they began with some carol singing, ably led by Headmistress Mrs. Jill Thomas. Then, as the choir had a break, we were given a magnificent example of gymnastics. Fortunately for the audience, the coach, Miss Karen Pennock, did not join in although we did have an ambulance standing by just in case. After the gymnasts had left us all breathless (they were fine by the way!), the choir resumed and finished off with a couple of traditional little ditties: Jingle Bells and We Wish You A Merry Christmas.

By this time we were all ravenous and Dave and Suwanna of the Bangsaray Club were not to let us down. We were treated to traditional Xmas Fare and everyone wolfed it down at great speed. Chris Ulyatt and Greg Watkins led the charge for seconds and by the time those two had finished there was not exactly a lot to go round for the rest of us.

Lee Hunter of Premier Environmental (centre) with friends and colleagues.

During all this time, we were entertained by the band who played anything and everything from 60’s to present day, though fortunately they declined Jim Howard’s request for the latest Will Smith rap single.

By now, everyone was well pogged and carried on with their post-prandial potations. Naturally, as David Nardone pointed out this was purely for health reasons as it was a tad chilly, honest!

Then it was time for the Grand Draw. There were loads of small prizes handed out and then it was time for the main prize. This was kindly donated by Qantas/BA and was a return ticket to Sydney, Australia. Rob Coleman, Regional Sales & Marketing Manager was awarding the prize. He asked Graham Macdonald, Chairman of the BCCT Eastern Seaboard, to draw the ticket and then hand it to him. In a moment of infinite madness, Suwanna decided that the fairest way to do the draw would be to throw the tickets up in the air and let Graham catch one. As this was next to the pool you can imagine Graham’s delight at this potential watery disaster. Anyway, the tickets went up in the air and Graham, leaping majestically like a gazelle (or, as Peter Currie said, “tripping like a drunken hippo!”) managed to catch a ticket before they all went for a swim. The audience held its breath in anticipation, who was to be the poor blighter to be sent to the Land of Oz? Whoops! Sorry. Who would be the lucky winner? Rob looked at the ticket number and announced it. To cries of “fix” and “scam”, Greg Watkins, the Executive Director of the BCCT, stood up and, acting as the perfect gentleman (when this metamorphosis occurred we are not sure) asked for the ticket to be re-drawn. As most of them were now languishing in the bottom of the Bangsaray Club swimming pool this could have posed an interesting problem. However, one or two were still desperately trying to cling on for air and Greg managed to grab one without going for an involuntary swim. He handed it to Rob who announced that the lucky winner was Mrs. Penny Whalley. As Penny has done so much for the community in Thailand and never won a thing this was greeted with much applause.

The evening drew to a close and everyone made their weary way home. The evening was a great success, due in no small part to David and Suwanna, Qantas/BA and St. Andrew’s International School. Many thanks to you all.

Thus rounded off a very successful 1999 for the BCCT on the Eastern Seaboard. The next function will be a networking evening at Delaney’s (Pattaya) on the 21st January 2000 (time to be announced).

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Pattaya now - seen from two different views

by Elfi

Parts1

Those of us who have lived in Pattaya for many years believe that Pattaya has gone through a lot of changes.

Here are two different views of guests, who recently came to visit.

Inge Poehlmann, product manager for Arabic countries of LTU Touristik and Heidelinde Mueller, director for quality & customer service, LTU Touristik, recently stayed at the Siam Bayshore for a short, private vacation. I met them at the Bali Hai Restaurant, where we enjoyed a very beautifully arranged and sumptuous dinner buffet.

Both women are friends of the hotel’s General Manager Hans Spoerri. “He was the only reason why we came to Pattaya again after 10 years,” both women agreed. Asking them why they couldn’t find another reason, they told me that Pattaya still has a bad reputation in Europe, especially in Germany. “But Pattaya has changed a lot within those ten years,” I told them. Especially Heide disagreed with me in that point. “South Pattaya still looks the same and is the same as ten years before. There might be some more streets in Pattaya now, but they are all in pretty bad shape,” she said. “Also the sidewalks all over the city - if there are any, are in a terrible state. Uneven, partly broken down and occupied by vendors - it is sometimes dangerous to use them,” Heidelinde continued. “See, we look at a place through the eyes of our customers, the tourists, and I don’t think a tourist would see any of the changes that Pattaya underwent.”

Werner Kuehr

Both women also said that there are still too many taxis driving around, pestering the air and cheating the tourists. Softly, I told them, that I had spoken to many tourists who all said that Pattaya’s taxi drivers are better than in many other places in Thailand. I told them about the many international schools we have now, because of the many foreign families who live in and around Pattaya. And I tried to tell them about all the other improvements, but all I said was like a cry in the wilderness.

Inge, who probably felt sorry for me, said that Thailand is number one in the world with its tour-frame-program. “Thailand has such a variety of nice and interesting places to go,” she said, “and they offer the best program in that way for the tourists.” Heidelinde added, “Yes, these tour programs are really nice for our clients. But most of them prefer a relaxing vacation. They like to book half board or full board and are happy if everything they need is in the same hotel. They really like to be lazy during their holidays. They’d rather sit all day on a clean beach or at the pool, at the same place and in the same seat day after day, then to go outside, afraid to eat in a strange place, for fear of catching some disease or food poisoning.”

“But,” I objected, “they don’t learn anything about a country and its people that way.” “Who needs that anyway?” Heidelinde asked. “The Maldives is perfect for a fantastic, relaxing vacation and there is no contact possible to the natives. They live behind big walls in the middle of a hotel and therefore the guests are not bothered by them.” “But,” I said, “ tourists are usually very attracted to the friendliness and charm of the Thai people.” Heidelinde replied, “This is something that really changed in Pattaya. People are not as friendly anymore and don’t have much charm left. The staff of some hotels are the best example and the standard of the hotels and the management are also not the same anymore.” At that time, a pretty waitress came to ask, with a charming smile and very politely, if we would like to order something else. Quickly one of the women said, “Of course, except for Hans’ place that is”.

I kept quiet for a while. Then, humbly, I asked what they thought about Pattaya being called a shopper’s paradise. All I got was a mild smile. Both women agreed that Pattaya might be a shopping paradise for some tourist-class tourists, but never for anybody else. “The people in Pattaya could make so much money by selling quality products, especially materials with nice patterns and designer cloths, but all they do is offer third grade products,” they told me. “How about jewelry?” I asked. “So many tourists are very attracted to the beautiful designs and the rather cheap prices?” “Don’t talk about jewelry, most of them look awful and cheap.”

My last question was: “Would you personally recommend Pattaya as a tourist destination to your friends and what chances do you give Pattaya in the future as a destination as such?” Inge replied, “Yes, I would recommend it to my friends.” Heidelinde interrupted, “No, I definitely would not. Business is business and of course we have to offer Pattaya in our program. But if Pattaya wants to stay a tourist destination, or rather become one again, it has to improve in many ways, like infrastructure, water quality and beach quality.”

Thanking the two ladies for the interesting talk, I took off to go shopping in one of our beautiful shopping malls, open until the late hours, to buy some really nicely designed dresses with pretty patterns at very reasonable prices. And, on my way home, I stopped at Pattaya’s Beach Promenade and took a stroll along the clean and nicely set-up pathways there.

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Werner Kuehr, a hotel-owner in Kitzbuehl, Austria, recently celebrated his 30th anniversary of visiting Pattaya. I talked to him only a few days after the interview with the ladies from LTU Touristic.

Werner first came to Thailand in 1969, as a very young man. He accepted an offer from the Oriental Hotel in Bangkok to become their Restaurant Manager. Before long, he moved into the position of the F&B Manager. After 3 years working at the Oriental, an Ital Thai group hotel, he took a brief replacement job as the GM of their Rincome Hotel in Chiang Mai. After that, he was finally offered the Resident Manager’s job at the Nipa Lodge, Pattaya’s first hotel, which belonged to the same group.

Over 1 1/2 years of work in Pattaya made him many friends, with whom he is still in contact. “Of course, many are dead already, like the late Mr. Fassbind, with whom I always had a very good relationship,” Werner remembers.

Werner eventually had to move on and was transferred to the Samila Hotel in Songkla, with which Ital Thai had a leasing contract. Werner was the General Manager there for 2 1/2 years and if a certain telephone call hadn’t happened, he probably would have stayed in Thailand forever.

This certain phone call came from his brother in the middle of the night and it was about a hotel for sale in Austria. Werner was of course interested and told his brother that he would be on vacation in about three months time and at that time would have a look at it. No, said his brother, you must make the decision here and now, otherwise it will be gone. So, Werner sat down, the telephone squeezed between his chin and his shoulder, and started to calculate. Only after a few minutes, he told his brother to buy it for him. Surely that meant that Werner had to leave Thailand. Agreements had to be made and Werner went to see his boss, Mr. Berlingieri, in Bangkok, asking him to cancel his contract with the company, which was still good for another 2 years. Mr. Berlingieri didn’t like the idea of losing Werner, especially when he already had planned to transfer him to the Airport Hotel in Bangkok. But, since this transfer plan was almost to the degree that it was finished, it made it easier for Werner to get out of the contract without deserting his company, go back home and open his, now very famous hotel in Austria.

I asked Werner where in Thailand he liked most. “Everywhere is very nice, because all four places I have worked have had their own charm,” Werner said. “It probably was a bit more difficult in the South, for there were not many tourists there. Pattaya was already becoming a tourist destination and therefore very different. Actually, I fell in love with that little fishing village called Pattaya as soon as I stepped my foot in it. It had a lot of charm, people were so friendly and everything was so easy going.

Werner revels in his memories; “I had found a lot of friends here and this is also one of the reasons why I keep coming back every year. I know exactly where to go to eat, to shop or to relax. Pattaya, one can say, became my second home.”

Talking about relaxing here, note that Werner definitely doesn’t come to Pattaya for the girls. As soon as he went back to Austria, he got married to an Austrian woman and came back with his wife several times before their divorce. Now, having another relationship with an Austrian woman, he keeps coming back with her. “I am definitely not a massage-seeking guy or a hanging-around-bars tourist,” he says. Knowing Werner for 20 years, I truly have to agree with that.

He admits that he looks at Pattaya from a different angle. “When I am here, I take it all in - the different scents, the different noises, the different way of life and the many different sensations which are in concentrated fashion approaching me. Maybe I see it differently because I love this city, I love Thailand and I do accept it with all its strengths and weakness.”

Of course it hurts him when he hears about Pattaya’s bad reputation in Europe. “Sometimes people don’t know what they are talking about. They just repeat what they hear. One has to come to this place and walk around with open eyes to find out what’s it all about,” he says zealously. “Pattaya is a city like every other, not better, but not worse. Of course, even for tourists its important to go up to the Thais and rather not stay always in the, granted secure and comfortable, but rather sterile atmosphere of a first class hotel”. He added that “Thais can be very tactful, helpful and good hearted, if you show them some kind of respect.”

Werner should know, because during his almost two months stays in Pattaya, he lives in an apartment at Jomtien Beach, drives around on a small motorbike and has had never any problems so far. “Maybe its just luck or my acceptance of the people here, but I have never ever had any bad experiences during those 30 years,” Werner says. “But maybe its also because I never walk around with thick gold chains, a huge Rolex or a purse filled with stacks of money.”

Asked about the changes in Pattaya, Werner has a lot to say. “Pattaya has changed very much for the better. If you look around, you can clearly see it. The tourism business is much more organized, the people here are more sophisticated and the language barrier is partly gone. Thais now care much more about the environment and the cleanliness around them. Of course, there is still some corruption and bribes going on, but it became much less.” He knows about that, for he receives Pattaya Mail regularly and admits that, “sometimes I still read the same (type of) crime stories as some 30 years ago. But, as I said before, everything else is done more organized now. I always loved the Thai festivals and my congratulations goes to TAT, who is doing a pretty good job now in organizing it better than ever before. I was at the opening of the Shrimp Festival and I had to admit, it couldn’t have been done better in Europe.” This remark, coming from the president of 18 years of the Board of Tourism in his home town, is a big compliment.

Werner also talked about the ‘shopping paradise’ Pattaya. “It’s unbelievable how reasonable the prices still are here. Sure, there is some rather cheap stuff around, but one can also buy real brand names - not only fakes - for much less money than in the producing countries. Or, take the workmanship for example. I had a flat tire on my bike the other day and got it changed at 11:00 p.m. for some 120 baht. At that price, a guy in Europe wouldn’t even get out of his chair.”

While we were talking, we had a delicious dinner at Bruno’s, whom Werner has known for 30 years. “Where in Europe can you get service like this for a price like that?” he asked. “And its not only at Bruno’s like that. There are so many good places to wine and dine around here! Even the small Thai restaurants have their own charm and the people, speaking English or not, are always friendly and try to be helpful.”

Don’t get me wrong, Werner Kuehr is not a one-sided tourist. He has been to many different places for vacation, like USA, Maldives, Dominican Republic, Caribbean, Canary Islands and places all over Europe. Before coming to Thailand 30 years ago, he worked in a few European countries as well. Werner realizes the difference and he, coming to Pattaya for 30 years, surely knows what he is talking about, when he talks about the development and the changes for the better in Pattaya.

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Christmas Letter 1999

by Father Joe

Jesus playing kickball with street kids and the Magi coming to visit - traveling on water buffalo from the east. It all makes perfectly good sense, well almost...

The “perfectly good sense” is Jesus playing kickball with street kids. Jesus is real and the kids are real and the Magi riding water buffalo are real.

The “almost” is that water buffalo probably weren’t the Magis’ first choice, but believe me, here in Thailand Street Kids are great buddies with water buffalo. Let me tell you about “Gift”. That’s right ‘Gift’ - like a wonderful present. That’s what her mom named her - not a nickname but her real name - her given name.

She’s six, already has her two front teeth, round face - fabulous kid - wild as the west wind and when she grins, all your troubles run away - like Mona Lisa’s smile. Gift’s back living with us again after four months with her mom. Her mom can’t quite cope with all that life is throwing at her right now and Gift is one those special six-year-olds that demand your very soul. You’d love Gift at first sight: her eyes sparkle. I’ll you about her in a minute, but first her mom.

I won’t tell you mom’s name, it wouldn’t be fair, but I can do an ‘almost’. In Thai we call our mom by the first name of mom’s oldest child... So Gift’s mom drops her own first name and becomes ‘The Mom of Gift’, her daughter. That’s what everyone calls her in the bar where she works nights. To be called by your oldest child’s name is a badge of honour.

Gift’s Mom went home last week. Mom and Gift. Grandpa and Grandma have never seen Gift. It has been that long and Gift had never seen Grandpa and Grandma, who chews Beetle Nut, nor the old grey coloured water buffalo, who ploughed the rice fields with Grandpa all those years. Grandpa bought that buffalo the day Gift’s Mom was born, some twenty plus years ago. You know he’s old, you can see the age in his long horns.

And Gift’s Mom here in the Klong Toey slum where she lives, when the meta-amphetamines would kick in, she felt real good and the problems disappeared for the length of the pills, a few hours. Mom would laugh and giggle and tell her daughter how happy she used to be in the village when she was Gift’s age and how she and that old water buffalo were inseparable.

So they came home to the village: Mom and daughter. Gift in a new dress and Mom in blue jeans and her long black hair combed in a ponytail, like she wears at work in the bar, with perfume and lipstick.

The old buffalo saw her first from where he was tied next to the house. Grandpa didn’t use him for ploughing much anymore. How was an old water buffalo to know that Grandpa had sold their fields when Grandma was sick last winter and they hadn’t heard from Gift’s Mom for years. They thought she was dead and not a word from her - they couldn’t even have a funeral and ask the monks to pray.

Now they only rented a small patch of what they had owned for a 100 years. Grandpa hadn’t told Grandma. And the old buffalo was sad, as he thought that Grandpa figured him too old now to pull a plough ...and that wasn’t so. He could still work - still pull a plough all day. He could!

His eyes were good and his memory was good and he immediately recognised Gift’s Mom after all those years. That yappety dog had died, but he was still strong. Their house was at the front of the village and when Mom and Gift got off the bus he knew.

He recognised Gift’s Mom and she saw in his eyes that he remembered her - remembered when she was a little girl and used to ride on his back and race and laugh... and in his eyes, he said... why have you forgotten me and left me for so may years? And she held his neck and her tears fell in the marble coloured eyes of the old buffalo and his eyes said, it’s all Okay, you’re home, even for just a little while. And lets go for one more ride, even if I can’t run anymore - just one more time - because I know little sister that you didn’t forget. I’d just like to make you happy, to forget your pain, even for a few minutes.

Gift said later it was the only time she saw her momma cry. Momma kissed her and sat her on the back of the buffalo. Gift said she wasn’t afraid because momma was there beside her and she felt so proud being with her pretty momma. Momma and daughter rode through the village, and no one understood why the tears. And Gift’s momma said that I love you girl, but I just can’t take care of you right now. But someday I will, and I want you to love this old water buffalo and take care of him if anything ever happens to momma, because when I was a little girl, he never hurt me and always loved me and was always there for me.

You might say it’s a sad story - but it’s about love and caring and moms and kids, isn’t it? And that’s not sad, that’s beautiful - that’s Christmas - that’s the miracle.

You might not like the reality but we all have our own reality in one way or another, don’t we? Gift’s mom still works and Gift’s with us, happy, going to school, living with 31 other girls in our house and over 100 more bruised but not broken kids. Boys and girls just like her in our four houses: street/slum kids/kids from juvenile court/abandoned kids and AIDS kids.

And there are more miracles - miracles every day - like the “Silent Man” in our AIDS hospice. 81 have died this year and 92 have gone home. Our “Silent Man” began smiling just yesterday and said Hello. It’s been two months since the police found him wandering the streets, dazed and beat up. The hospital said he had the virus. Yesterday was ‘His’ day.

And how eight-year-old Sai, who told her momma in prison, “It’s Okay Momma, don’t worry”. Or ten-year-old Awt who wants to be a doctor so he can help other street kids when they get hurt and sick. And the 3,500 kindergarten aged slum kids in our 32 slum kindergartens.

We all have our stories and our miracles. You just have to look, just a bit. A story for another day - another Christmas - is to tell you how one day, three wise men, the Magi came to the village and asked if they could borrow that old grey coloured water buffalo with the long horns and marble coloured eyes - Gift’s Mom’s buffalo - to ride to see Jesus. Somehow they’d heard the story about Gift and her Mom - I guess the Angels must have told them.

Merry Christmas.

Fr. Joe

Human Development Foundation, Bangkok
Tel. (2) 391-4968, 381-1821, fax: (2) 391-4968
Email:[email protected]

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Trust is essential for leaders

Thought for the week

by Richard Townsend, Corporate Learning
Consultant

These are words that others need to be using when they describe you if you are to gain and maintain trust: committed, confident, fearless, communicative, predictable, reliable, correct, forgiving, clear, factual, unbiased, respectful, reasonable, confidential, contributing, even, defining, accountable, interested, calm, resolute, tactful, sincere, frank, listener, patient, answering, sharing, fair, timely, honest, decisive, neutral, competent, consistent, explicit, responsible, transparent, close (near), willing, collaborative, accurate, graceful, helpful.

Know how you stand? Why not ask your followers to rank you (anonymously) on a scale of 1 to 10 or use the “never/sometimes/mostly/always” grid for each word and see how you do... come on, you’re the boss you can take it!

The longest sentence I have ever written (trust me):

To be trusted followers need to understand your intent and believe they can find a worry free, suspicion-less, environment where they are not taken for granted, their faith in the leader is confirmed and supported by a consistent track record, where mistakes are forgiven, miscommunications and misunderstandings are corrected, beliefs, differences and privacy are respected, sweeping opinions based on assumptions or stereotypes never occur, fear of loss is minimized, being betrayed or feeling burnt does not happen, abruptness, shock, knee jerk, emotional reactions, cynicism or anger are not permitted, vulnerable and na๏ve people are protected, solace is freely given, they are never disabled, over-reaction does not occur, they are never categorized, forced or excluded through prejudice, avoiding or omitting truth or facts is not permitted, interruptions, restlessness, frowning, negative gestures are discouraged, success, action and effort are acknowledged and credit given, neutrality, togetherness, flexibility, directness, informative, non-assumptive opinions and perspectives are sought by a leader who keeps promises, is willing to be wrong, extends themself, overcomes short-term feelings, avoids harming others, shows trust, risks being let down, makes amends and who also promotes togetherness, closeness, full disclosure, open dialogue, speaking the truth, does what they say they will do, doesn’t do what you say they won’t do, develops others and their ideas, able to have fun, seeks solutions to problems, win/win agreements and closure and lives up to followers expectations through thoroughly understanding that power equals responsibility.

Worth a thought... get me an aspirin!

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