Sending money


Dear Hillary,

I apologize for my not so good English. Here my problem. Is it possible that letters from Germany are not arriving at the right target? I meet a nice Thai girl on my last holiday and the friendship between us deepens. I write in the meantime several letters to my girlfriend and she write me back. And we have no problems until now. The last letter I wrote in June but getting no answer. Inside the letter I put 2,000 baht and some pictures. I called to my girl at the bar but she said there is no letter coming from me. What will I do? Your newspaper is my only help for my heartbreak situation. I talk with other people who stay in Thailand before and they tell me that some girls are simply lying. But I am really desperate and I only want to know what is true or not, because I love her very much. Have maybe somebody of the post staff stolen the letter or anybody else? So I want to know your meaning about this sadden situation. I thank you and I look forward to an answer from you.

Postal Pavel

Dear Pavel,

Don’t worry about your English as your emotions came through very plainly (and painfully too). Unfortunately, I have heard from many people that letters containing money go missing. The answer is to disguise the fact that there may be money in the letter by putting it inside a card or a small magazine. That way when the letter is held up to a bright light you cannot see the money inside. Perhaps it might also be better to save your money so that you can get over here more often, but really Petal, you should transfer money electronically, which you can do straight into her bank account. Ask your bank to do it for you in Germany. I don’t think your girlfriend is lying, nobody sends money in a letter any longer.

  • Chris

    Your girl works in a bar, did you send the letter to the bar? I guess so as most of these girls are a bit careful about giving their real address to anyone. If this is the case the cash was probably either stolen by another girl at the bar or your “girlfriend” is pretending she didn’t get it in the hope you will send more.
    Sending money to bar girls is a mugs game, she is not your girlfriend she is the girlfriend of the man paying for her services at that time. A lot of these girls have regular contributing farang men all thinking she is their girlfriend.
    Wise up stop sending money

  • pierre a

    Send 2000 B to a bar girl ??? You should know what she will think about you…

  • J West Hardin

    Pavel buddy, you’re getting paved. There will be a newer lower mileage model waiting in the bar when next you come….no need to pay for storage on a used unit.