I have not been in Pattaya a long time, but I can see already what you mean with the young guys coming over here. I see them every night at the bars, buying expensive lady drinks for girls who are just playing up to them. Like you say, don’t they ever learn?
You have to be a little more charitable, Petal, and realize that these girls are “working” girls and they are just doing their job. They are supposed to get a certain quota of lady drinks each night, and by laying on the charm, is the way they do this. The young chaps are enjoying an evening and the young girls are earning their salary. It is a victimless ‘crime’. It only becomes a problem when the young chaps think the situation is real.