An older bottle of wine

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Dear Hillary,

One of the older women at work seems to have taken a shine to me, stops to chat at my desk and has told me that she is not married and does not have a Thai boyfriend.  I see her every day and joking I said we should go out one afternoon for some fun.  She always says “next year”, and it has been left at that.  Today she asked me what I was doing on Saturday or Sunday and I said I was busy.  She then floored me by saying, “OK, next week,” and I think she meant it, not like her “next years”.  How do I find out what she meant?  Should I go ahead and say a day next week?  If she doesn’t really mean it, would I embarrass her?  Have I put my foot right in it?

Jeb

Dear Jeb,

This lady has been giving you all the hints that any mature man should recognize.  I read that she is an older woman, and I think you must be a younger man, or at least someone who is not very worldly wise.  If you want to go out with her one afternoon for fun (as you put it), then just agree on a day.  If she doesn’t really mean it, then she will give you an excuse as to why it is not possible.  Lighten up, my Petal.  Just enjoy life as it comes, and remember that old wines in old bottles can be better than new wines in new bottles.